Before the funeral, this was the last time I saw Leo. Whenever I admit this - it simply hurts my heart. This will forever be one of my life's biggest regrets. You simply don't expect to lose someone....so putting off visiting doesn't seem like that big of a deal. I try not to dwell on this reality, because it is very unproductive. Since I called their house daily, it didn't feel like years - and for that - I'm forever thankful.
I was in MI for a few days around the election. It was a great visit. It was the first time I had seen their house - Leo's kitchen - meeting a few of the new cats. It was abnormally warm in MI for November - I remember we sat outside a lot, went on walks, etc. I knew that there were pictures taken, but I couldn't remember who had them. Today I found the pictures on my external hard drive!
John and Carol were having people over at their house that night. That was the first time I had met John, Carol, Allen and Brenda. I had no idea at the time - but for me - they are now a direct connection to Leo. He loved them dearly - I feel so much comfort when I'm around them. Great, great people - or my new aunts and uncles - as I have been fondly referring to them as. I want my future kids (major assumption here) to spend time with them - and learn things they would have learned from Leo. Examples: sailing, cooking, loving, laughter, wine (when legal of course), etc...
The three of us had a lot of fun thinking about what food to take. For example: chicken wings for "left-winged media"; "blue - corn chips"...you get the idea. It was a great night and I'm so thankful I decided to escape the South's sea of red for the 2008 Election.
Here are a few of the pictures:
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Leo came home with a special treat for the 3 of us. |
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This is after Obama won! As you can tell, we are all very happy. I. LOVE. THIS. PICTURE! |
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Poor Allen was nervous the first part of the night. It was good that I was there - to remind him the first round of election returns are typically from the South :). |
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Mom and I excited about our "Yes we can" sodas! |
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Yes, the pin says "Demo-Cats for Obama" |
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Mom and Leo :)
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-Kathryn-
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